I used to find this whole “attract your ideal partner” thing super corny and unrealistic. Any display of someone else’s happy relationship would have me suspect that it was merely a picture perfect façade hiding behind it countless dysfunctions. And perhaps it was in many cases, because we all know healthy and functional relationships are a rare thing nowadays. It’s almost as if I had become a skeptic to the possibility of having a truly loving and honest relationship due to my own pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable and withdrawn partners. But lately, this is changing.
I may not be in a relationship yet, but I’m realizing that all this time, it was up to me to realize and accept the key insights revealed in this amazingly inspiring video discussing what it takes to attract the right relationship. Hope it inspires you as much as it inspired me!