Little Things That Make You Happy (According To Your Myers-Briggs Type)
There are certain things that can literally light up someone’s day with ease. It can be little things that can make one feel happy, and those things differ with every individual. Here’s a list of things that can make each of you happy based on your personality type!
Feeling valued and important is of prime importance for INFJs. They tend to feel happy when they know that someone out there actually cares about their feelings and genuinely wants them to be happy. They feel happy when they can be themselves around their loved ones, and when they know that they can be safe around their loved ones. Spending some time alone reading and exploring their inner world also satisfies them. Being able to serve a bigger purpose is one of the main goals in their life.
ENFJs can be genuinely happy when they feel they have successfully made their loved ones happy, when they feel that they have provided their friends and family enough. They also find immense happiness when they are appreciated by the people around them, and it makes them feel loved. They love being around people who are patient and not overly demanding, and are happy when they get to spend quality time with the people that they love. ENFJs tend to actively seek affection and approval from those around them, and need to vent and express themselves too.
INFPs tend to be really happy when they have people in their life who listen to them and allow them to be free of judgement. They also love reading for hours or listening to music. When they are allowed to be alone, they find peace in being with their inner mind without any interruption. They love spending time and engaging in deep conversations with the ones close to them. They also love making people smile and doing random acts of kindness and give out displays of affection and warm hugs openly.
ENFPs love being inspired. They love the idea of being truly connected with someone on a meaningful and deeper level and enjoy bringing more positivity and spreading love in people’s lives. They like it when they can be completely comfortable being themselves and being appreciated for who they are. They are at rest when they are not judged, and can share a honest and sincere conversation with those around them. They also love reading, exploring and the idea of romance!
INTJs aspire to reach a new level of understanding. They love it when they get enough alone time without being bothered and interrupted. They are at their best when they get to achieve a goal or accomplish a task in their own way, and they love being with people who share the same hunger and thirst for knowledge as they have. They love being around people who truly understand them and appreciate them and work together with them in cracking intellectual puzzles.
ENTJs love being noticed for their intelligence and accomplishments. They like it when the people around them are undeniably loyal to them, and when they themselves have an upper hand when in an intellectual argument. They love it when they are able to express their passion for their goals and desires, and when they see the results unfold before their eyes. They also like being around friends who they can communicate with on the same level. Things that they love are personal growth, honesty and success.
INTPs feel at ease when they are appreciated for their efforts. They love it when someone knows them and understands their intentions and desires, and someone who can engage in an honest conversation with them. They love it when they share the same interests as those around them, and are not judged for what they do. They also need their personal space, since it allows them to process their emotions without any external pressure. They admire the freedom to do what they enjoy doing, and they are also big on electronics and games that stimulate the mind.
ENTPs love it when they get to have in depth debates with intelligent people. They love to exchange interesting ideas with other people without them being offended, and they love exploring new possibilities that the world offers. They are big on trying everything that is fresh and new, and exploring the world and being connected to be people who have a good sense of humor and share similar interests with them. They love winning and have a tolerance for witty and sarcastic comments.
ISTJs love it when they are appreciated for their hard work and honesty and all the effort that they put into whatever they do. They love it when they are noticed for their dedication, honesty and loyalty. They also love it when they get their alone time and when others respect their rules and space, and actually listen to what they have to say too. They are also big on gestures and surprises and love structure, order and honesty.
ESTJs are big when it comes to rules and regulation, and they can be happy when they are able to share long and intense conversations with people who have similar interests as them. They also like being appreciated for how hard they work for others, and like being with people who understand that they aren’t intentionally harsh, and that they actually really care. They love it when they spend time with their loved ones with good food on the table.
Knowing that their loved ones are cared for and happy make the ISFJs satisfied. They tend to be most happy when they are able to provide for the people that they love, and when those surrounding them are respectful and mindful of others. They also love being appreciated for what they do, and for who they really are. They have simple needs and love family gatherings and delicious home cooked meals. There’s nothing that can beat some quiet time with a good book for them.
ESFJs love it when their loved ones are happy. They feel satisfied when the people that they love appreciate them and want them to be around them. They also feel happy when people confide in them with their secrets and trust them. Being told that they did something in a good way tends to make them happy too. They love it when others aren’t just satisfied but also impressed by them. They also enjoy cooking and helping taking some pressure off of their loved ones. They genuinely love being loved unconditionally.
ISTPs love being left alone for long periods of time. They are satisfied when they have the freedom to do whatever they want to do, and when they can absorb as much knowledge as they can and implement it in the real world. They love it when they are relaxed and are not pressurized to express themselves. They also feel satisfied when they get to explore and enjoy fun activities outdoors and share the love for good food with many others.
Feeling appreciated for the things that they do, and knowing that others like having them around can really make the ESTPs happy. They also enjoy making others laugh and often laugh at themselves too. What’s more, they love going on adventures and trying new and exciting things. Being understood is of importance to them, and nothing makes them feel better than when they are appreciated and respected for their intelligence and knowledge.
ISFPs absolutely need to be allowed to be themselves without any judgement. They love being appreciated for who they are, and reminded that who they are. They also enjoy little surprises and gifts from the people that they love, and enjoy being carefree and with loved ones. Infact, they really enjoy the little things that other people usually take for granted.
Being appreciated and celebrated and the freedom to express themselves completely without being judged really make an ESFP personality happy. They also love making others smile and being with good company and people who always want to see the bright side of life, and those who always want to have fun. They love enjoying life without any stress or responsibilities and being with people who have shared interests.
Written by Laif Beck